Frequently Asked Questions

BOOKINGS

  • Yes, of course! I understand that booking an escort for the first time can be daunting: you're meeting a new person, possibly having new sexual experiences, and potentially entering an unfamiliar environment. I'm very aware of this dynamic, and I do what I can to make you feel comfortable and relaxed. If you have specific questions about the process or what to expect, I'm happy to answer those to avoid any surprises, but I'll say in short that my feedback from new and nervous clients is always very positive!

  • Sexual health is a massive priority for me and I’m always very open to discussing it!

    I take daily PrEP, and event-based DoxyPEP. I’ve been vaccinated against mpox, Hepatitis, and HPV, and have had both doses of the MenB vaccine which can reduce the risk of getting gonorrhoea.

    I test every 3 weeks. If you’d like to see my recent results, I’m happy to provide them. If you’re especially anxious about STIs, and would like to schedule a meet directly after my latest negative test, I’m happy to organise this as well.

    However, I should note that while tests are accurate to a certain extent, there can be a window period before infections show up on a test, so they cannot be 100% without a period of abstinence beforehand. My experience is that all the measures I take are very effective and I do not have any issues, but I want to be clear that while I do what I can, nothing will be 100%, and your sexual health is your own responsibility.

    That said: as a sex worker, I recognise my role in this and take it very seriously, and I do everything I can to protect myself and others!

  • Yes, I'm very open to seeing disabled clients. I'm a patient person, and I see my commitment to being open to all kinds of people as a key part of my work. I understand the need for an individually-tailored session depending on your specific circumstances, so the best way to discuss this is to get in touch. It’s likely that I’ll have follow-up questions and may ask for extra details to ensure I can provide the best experience for you.

    It's worth noting that my flat is not accessible—it's up two flights of relatively steep and narrow stairs—so if you have a disability that means stairs are difficult then we would need to meet at your place or at a hotel. If you have any access questions, I'm happy to answer them.

    If it emerges after our initial conversation that I’m not the right fit for you, I would be happy to refer you to other sex workers, if this is something you would be interested in. However, I'm confident that I'll be very happy and able to help you myself, and create a comfortable environment for us both.

    I should also note that I have a Level 3 certificate in BSL and welcome Deaf clients!

  • Some general tips and guidelines:

    • Be on time (not early and not late)

    • Sometimes things come up, and cancellations or delays are necessary - I get that! I will always try to be flexible where I can, but if you need to cancel, please give as much notice as you can

    • Read through my whole website before asking questions, which may have already been answered (although if you’re here, I’m assuming you don’t need to be told this!)

    • Have good personal hygiene: be freshly showered, with brushed teeth

    • Understand that while I’m a very open person, I may not feel comfortable answering every personal question, and those boundaries should be respected

    • Never ask for discounts! The answer will be no and I may refuse to meet you at all; I see this as disrespectful

    • In your texts or emails when we’re arranging, be clear, direct, respectful, and polite

    • If you’ve enjoyed the service, tipping is always welcome!

  • Not only is that fine with me, I actively welcome clients who haven't been with a trans guy before, or may have never seen a pussy in real life before.

    I like teaching someone how to play with me or eat me out (see video here on Bluesky—NSFW), and you don't need to worry about being inexperienced. Part of the fun is trying new things and exploring new aspects of your desire, and I love being on the other side of that.

  • I'm open to this, although I would usually prefer to do this with people I've already met! While I understand it's often more convenient for you to bring me to you, rather than visit me in London, I do also have my safety and security to consider. For this reason, I would prefer that you book me a separate hotel room, for example, and I will always ask for a deposit sent by bank transfer in advance of travelling anywhere.

  • I don't specifically offer short meets like this. If you're just looking for a quick fuck-and-go, that's absolutely fine with me, but would be priced as a 1-hour meet. There is just no obligation to stay for the full hour.

  • Yes, of course! I’ll use an online currency conversion at the time of travel, rounded to an easy number.

  • Yes! I’ll need details from both of you (name, face photo, requests etc).

    My rate for this is calculated by adding an extra 50% to the usual fee. Please get in touch if you have specific questions or want to clarify the exact rate!

  • I don’t have a regular duo partner, but this can be arranged! I have networks and friends of people I can contact, so if you’re interested in meeting me with another sex worker - e.g. another trans guy definitely get in touch.

    I would prefer to arrange this after I’ve already met you 1-1, so that I can vouch for you before inviting another escort to join us. In some cases everything might be organised through me, but you may need to chat with the other person directly if they wish. The rate would of course be double. Any queries about this, just ask!

  • Yes, I love going on dates! I’m especially up for vegan food and the theatre.

    For non-sexual, public meets I charge £150/hour. This can of course be combined with other activites before or after!

  • In general, I’ll come to your hotel room (or you to mine) in the evening, around 8pm. We’ll have fun for a few hours, then cuddle up together to sleep - for a minimum of 6 hours, but ideally the full 8!

    In the morning, depending on your mood, we can go for round 2, then I’ll have a coffee with you and head off.

    As a rough guideline, I consider overnight bookings to be 12 hours long. It can also be nice to have dinner together first, in which case I’ll arrive closer to 7pm! Any questions/requests/preferences about this, just get in touch.

  • Yes, definitely. I’ve met clients before who don’t speak English. We arrange everything via message, using online translators, and in person we either continue to translate where necessary, or rely on gestures and pointing, and are too busy doing other things to chat much!

    I also speak German, and am learning British Sign Language (I have my Level 3 certificate).

  • Nope! Sorry, but in short, this is a blanket no. My body hair is a key part of my branding and work life, so if I were to shave or trim then this would obviously have an impact on the work I would be able to do without my full bush or without other body hair.

    The exception is if you have a very strong preference and a very big budget, i.e. to cover my income until my hair grew back. In that case, I'm open to discussing this.

    My facial hair is much more flexible and changes often: sometimes a trimmed beard, sometimes a moustache. If you have a preference in this area, it will be easier for me to accommodate, if you give me enough notice.

  • No. Squirting happens after I’ve cum, when my clit is overstimulated. If you’re into it, and would like it to happen, I can show you how to do it, but bodies are unpredictable so there are no guarantees! Equally, if you’re not into it, I can cum without it happening (which is what usually happens).

  • This is a real concern and one that I think it’s worth addressing. It’s also something I’ve experienced!

    The short answer: we continue or end the session as you see fit; we both say thanks very much and nice to meet you; we part ways.

    The long answer: as a sex worker I see this as part of my job. Your concern may have two sides to it—one, that you’ll have wasted your money, and two, that I might be hurt or offended if you discover that your attraction to a man with a vagina works better in your imagination, or when watching porn, than it does in real life.

    I can’t help with the first point. That’s something you’ll have to weigh up by yourself. The second point, however, needn’t concern you. This is a nuanced topic that I don’t have space to cover here, but I recognise that my role is often as the object of experimentation. I welcome and invite it. When we click, and you discover a new and exciting desire, that’s amazing. If it doesn’t quite work for you, we just politely and respectfully move on; we can chat instead, or keep going, or we can always just end the session early. There are no expectations on my side.

    While I’d say that the vast majority of clients have fallen into the first category, of discovering a new sexual experience and enjoying themselves a lot, I have had one or two interactions where it didn’t quite work. We cuddled, we chatted, we had a nice time, and we never saw each other again.

    Sex is about exploration, and not everything can live up to the fantasy. However, I pride myself on living up to the fantasy almost all of the time!

PHOTOSHOOTS

  • Not without prior agreement, with the photographer booking me as an escort, charged at my escorting rates. In the past, I have done some escort/model sessions, where someone photographs me for an hour and we have sex for the other hour (sometimes with some overlap and fluidity between these, which can be fun!), which would cost 60 for the modelling and 200/400 for the other hour. I enjoy these mixed sessions and it can be fun and playful to incorporate sex and photography into one meet. However, I should be clear that this only happens with prior arrangement and prior payment. When you book me for a photoshoot, I have not consented to being physically touched, and ask that these boundaries be respected. While I'm being photographed, often naked, this is an inherently vulnerable dynamic and I expect that anyone who photographs me will appreciate this.

  • No, not always. If budget is a real barrier, especially if you're a queer/amateur/aspiring/film photographer, please get in touch anyway, and we can have a chat. I'm definitely open to collaborations, especially if I can expect a decent number of photos from the shoot to use for my own platforms and social media (always with credit!).

    I understand that sometimes the money just isn't there, and if you're not making any money from your photography, it can be a lot to ask to pay models too. However, if you're in this freelancing position, you probably understand better than anyone the importance of properly compensating workers!

    If you're a brand or company, and/or the photos will be used to advertise something or sell products, you should 100% be offering compensation to anyone who models for you.

    Similarly, if you'll be using the photos for a private/personal project, and are unable or unwilling to share them with me for my own use, I would not do this for free.

    In other words, there is some room for negotiation, as long as we’re both happy with what we’re getting out of the shoot!

  • I will post them on my OF/JFF/etc behind a paywall, with a link to whichever platform you want to be credited on, e.g. Instagram. I'll usually also post a selection of NSFW images on Twitter/Bluesky, and SFW on Instagram.

    If any zines or brands ask me about using the images, I will not approve this without permission. I'm happy to sign model release forms and understand that in most cases the photos remain the intellectual property of the photographer.

    I tend to post images from a shoot intermittently over a period of months or even years, as I like to vary my content where possible, as well as increase the audience for the posts.

  • Unless you're hiring me for a brand shoot, or are using the photos for a specific project where I won't see the final product, I appreciate as many photos as you're able/willing to send me! If I've agreed to a discounted or unpaid shoot, I ask for a minimum of about 30 images that you're happy for me to use, although the more the better! A zipped transfer folder with hundreds of photos makes me very happy.


    When we're arranging, it's also useful to know where you'd like to shoot (my flat is sometimes possible, if you're visiting and don't have a location) and how long you usually shoot for. If I'm travelling, I'm usually happy to use my hotel room, and can send photos if you need to check lighting etc in advance. I might sometimes need to charge extra for travel if it's a long journey to get to you!

  • The more information the better!

    As a guide:

    • Budget: are you able to pay my standard fee?

    • Location: do you have a specific location or studio in mind?

    • Timing: how long do you normally shoot for?

    • Dates: when are you available?

    • Photos: roughly how many pictures can I expect from our shoot?

    • Usage: do you have any limitations on how I can use the photos, e.g. behind a paywall on OF etc?

    • Styling: clothing, accessories, etc? Or nude?

    • Levels: if the scale is from fully clothed to something erotic or sexual, what do you have in mind?

    • Anything else I should know about how you work

GENERAL

  • I’m always open to discussing collabs with other performers! I have some basic requirements:

    You should be an established content creator with a backlog of high quality videos on your pages, and you should be verified as a perfomer on the main content platforms including OF and JFF. Ideally, you’ll have already filmed with someone I know, who can vouch for you! Obviously that isn’t always possible, but I say all this to discourage messages from people who aren’t performers, who often get in touch to ask if we can ‘collab’. I don’t film with people who aren’t performers in their own right, who have a social media presence and put time and energy into their work. If you’re tempted to ask to collab, it may be that booking me in an escorting context is more appropriate—and if you approach in this way, I’m much more likely to reply.

    With that out of the way, for creators, yes, let’s do it! Please DM, making it clear you’re interested in filming together (sorry, but if the message only says ‘hey’ I won’t reply), and we can arrange something.

    Aside from the criteria I mentioned above, I also ask for recent STI certs, and can provide mine—I get tested every 3 weeks. While I’m open to occasional creatively-filmed videos with faceless performers, my strong preference is for people who show their face on camera! Either way, I’ll ask you to sign my model release form, which includes a selfie and copy of your ID, so if you’re not comfortable with that, unfortunately we won’t be able to film together.

    I should also note that if you’ve never been with a trans guy before, or with anyone with a pussy, that’s totally fine with me, and (if you’re comfortable with it) it can often be incorporated into the video in a hot and authentic way.

    The best way to first get in touch about filming is via DM on any social media platform, though I like to switch to Whatsapp after a few messages.

  • Yes! I’m happy to talk about my experiences and have taken part in various interviews, panel discussions, and other projects over the years - some of which are linked on my Other Services page.

    In most cases I will charge a small fee for my time.

  • The short answer: sometimes!

    The long answer:

    I want to highlight that everyone needs to get paid what they are worth.

    Although I sometimes like to collab with queer artists, brands, and creators etc, if you have the means to pay the people who are working for you in any capacity, you should—whether you're making use of my time, or experience, or life story, or capitalising on my marginalised identities to diversify your project, or utilising the platform I've spent years building, I, like all creators/queer people/sex workers/freelancers/workers in general, deserve to be properly compensated.

    Times are hard, and I know that not everyone reading this will be in a position to pay for everything. The other side of that, of course, is that because times are hard, people deserve to be paid for their work!

    I'm in a paradoxically privileged position where I'm able to assert my worth and refuse to accept jobs that I don't believe to be properly compensated. I see my privilege not in contradiction with (sex and other) workers who are in less privileged positions, but rather as an appeal to anyone reading this to put some thought into what you might be asking people to do for free. Exposure doesn't pay our bills! If I've turned down some work for you because it doesn't pay enough, rather than looking elsewhere, consider reassessing what you're asking for, and rethinking your approach where possible.